Let's start this story from my point of view.
Shilo is beautiful, especially in the summer when he shines golden with a few dapples to add to his radiance. He's a Quarter Pony, although there are no papers to prove his pedigree. But his appearance is minor compared with his temperament. In all my 70 years or so of horsing around, he is the friendliest equine I have ever met. He is the first to greet everyone. He comes to the fence or gate, and puts his head in a position for pats. He is a mooch for horse treats, but really he is happy with nothing but attention. He always wants attention.
It someone goes out to the pasture to fix a fence, he is right beside them. Ignore him, and a cap is gone. Attempt to leave his area, and he dances about, trying to block any exit. He wants to be with people. Other horses are okay, but want he really wants is people.
This friendly behavior should be a plus, but not always.
Take the fence fixing situation. He can slow the whole process. Shilo isn't adverse to trotting off with a hammer. Sigh. And try grooming his pasture mate, Bonnie...poor Bonnie. He is intent on putting his body between you and Bonnie. If that doesn't work, he will nip the poor mare.
Further, there is the problem with conducting lessons. His pasture borders the arena, so he can clearly see there is action right beside him He sees other horses, but more than that he sees people. People: his favorite companions.
Usually we turn the electric fence off when we are conducting lessons. We don't want the students hurt.
But trust Shilo. He discovered the power was off. He barged through the wires that appear to be white ribbon. The first couple of times he managed to duck under the top rung and climb over the bottom, spaced low for the Miniature Horses we no longer have. However, when I tried to adjust the wires the third time, he just plowed through in spite of the power being turned back on.
The lesson was interrupted. My youngest granddaughter (16) admitted his frolicking, including bucking and rearing, once he got in the arena, frightened her. I had to grab him, and lead him back, past the now shredded electric ribbon, while he kept insisting he wanted to be with us, to be part of the action.
Eventually, my husband had to completely adjust and repair the wire. And we now have to leave the electricity flowing when we have lessons in that area.
Having a super friendly horse isn't always a bonus.
Okay. There are two sides to most stories, and here is Shilo's version.
I just want to have fun.
I like people. When I was younger it was people who finally fed me, and they took me away from the stupid, bullying stallion. I'm a grateful kind of guy.
You have to understand I look forward to training; I love treats.
And the day I realized the fence wouldn't shock me; well, who wouldn't want to go and play with the students and the other horses? I discovered the nipping ribbons weren't on, and all I had to do was step over the bottom rung, duck under the top, and there I was - with the gang. The Treatsinthepocket woman was there, the curly maned young woman who called Treatsinthepocket "Grandma," and who sometimes comes to help with the lessons was there, and so was the slight girl with the uncertain gait, and the man who always seemed to be fascinated by the stone he carried. They had the brown pony mare with them, as well as the bay mare.
I didn't know the pony well, but I'm always interested in other horses. I tried to greet everyone. I was so pleased. Treatsinthepocket got a halter with a rope, and put them on me.
I thought, "oh, joy, I get to play, too," but she led me back to the pasture with big mare, who I like, although she can be a bit of a bore.
Well, now I knew what to do. I stepped through the ribbons again. I was out in a minute! I'm a fast learner. Back in the arena. I knew the game. Oh, bother! I was returned to the pasture.
Treatsinthepocket had disappeared to turn on the nipping. I had already committed myself to stepping through, and I got a little bite, but I was out! The ribbons had come loose from their posts. They trailed behind me like a long, flapping tail.
Okay! I was back in the action. Curly maned girl approached me. Did she want to play, too? I danced, shook my head and bounced to my back legs, then whirled and bucked out. Curly maned girl backed off. So disappointing. I was sure she wanted to play. So, I did a little more dancing to encourage her. No biggy.
Treatsinthepocket returned, and snapped the rope back on my halter. "Good," I thought. She gets it! She was muttering. I tried dancing and tossing my head, but she put me in the driveway pen, and proceeded to tie off the fence. Such a disappointment. Another big sigh.
Later that day Gruffmanwhotrimshoofs appeared and adjusted all the ribbons so I couldn't step out anymore. More sighs.
I still like people. And I still just want to have fun.
Won't someone come to play with me? I promise to nuzzle you, or rest my head on your shoulder.